Friday, February 3, 2017

50 Questions That Will Free Your Mind

How old would you be if you didn’t know how old you are? Hmmm I feel 90, look about 45 and think I am still 21 a lot happened in that year and it's where my mind goes most often

Which is worse, failing or never trying? Never trying because you can't win or lose unless you at least try!

If life is so short, why do we do so many things we don’t like and like so many things we don’t do? This one is going to take some time I think. We do things we don't like for one of three reasons: a) because it is expected of us like going to university when you would rather go to college as your parents expect you too; b) because there is no choice like taking a job for the sake of a paycheque not because you want it; c) because we do not see any other path open to us right at that moment. As for not doing the things we like, the reasons are similar but the one I find is most prevalent in my mind is that I am not good enough to pursue the dream and the day to day often prevents me from seeing that I could if I were willing to take a chance. We tend to trick ourselves into not believing we are worth it.

When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? Interesting question, no I can say that I have done most everything I said I would do and a lot more besides.

What is the one thing you’d most like to change about the world? I would change one tiny thing that I think would make the world a very different place, I would remove the thought that any one race or person is better than any other. If we no longer hate each other for our physical differences perhaps we could learn to work towards fixing the earth in a way that would benefit us all

If happiness was the national currency, what kind of work would make you rich? Happiness is so hard to define, I am happy with my life as it is for the most part and the things that would need to be changed for me is a whole chapter in my book of life. If you have read my bio page you will know what I'm talking about. One simple change... oh dear I was supposed to choose a type of work for this in that case I loved working in the food industry especially when I was serving customers. Something about feeding hungry people makes me feel good.

Are you doing what you believe in, or are you settling for what you are doing? I have never truly believed in anything except for getting through to the next day and I do that well right now. I am where I want to be with an income that is sufficient for my needs, what more do you need.

If the average human life span was 40 years, how would you live your life differently? I wouldn't have! I lived my life until I turned 40 and it was only after that I settled down. See my 40th birthday was in 2000 and I really didn't expect to see the end of that year when it came and went and I was still here I had to rethink and create another life for myself.

To what degree have you actually controlled the course your life has taken? Why would I want to control it? Too much control takes all the fun out of life as far as I'm concerned.

Are you more worried about doing things right, or doing the right things? For most of my life I have tried to do the right thing for me and I worried a bit about what was correct even though I seldom did it.

You’re having lunch with three people you respect and admire.  They all start criticizing a close friend of yours, not knowing she is your friend.  The criticism is distasteful and unjustified.  What do you do? I would ask them why they were talking about her that way since I knew her and had not seen any of the things they were talking about. I am assuming if I respect them that I will feel comfortable speaking my mind because I trust them.

If you could offer a newborn child only one piece of advice, what would it be? Respect your parents but if they are not good ones make sure you tell someone who will help and protect you.

Would you break the law to save a loved one? No, if I love them and they have done something wrong then they are accountable and must pay the price.

Have you ever seen insanity where you later saw creativity? Not that I recall I have always been a live and let live kind of person

What’s something you know you do differently than most people? I can not think of anything other than I am a naturalist and most people are not.

How come the things that make you happy don’t make everyone happy? Each person is different and so have different things that make them happy

What one thing have you not done that you really want to do? What’s holding you back? Travel around the world, the biggest problem is the lack of money

Are you holding onto something you need to let go of? Not that I am aware of, I have worked through my issues. About the only problem I find is forcing myself to do what I think others expect me to.
If you had to move to a state or country besides the one you currently live in, where would you move and why? I like where I live but I would love to live in France because that is where my families roots are

Do you push the elevator button more than once?  Do you really believe it makes the elevator faster? Sometimes especially if I feel antsy but no I know it doesn't speed things up.

Would you rather be a worried genius or a joyful simpleton? I would be a joyful simpleton more laughter, fewer worries.

Why are you, you? How does one describe that? I am curious, friendly it is just who I am.
Have you been the kind of friend you want as a friend? Yes as much as possible

Which is worse, when a good friend moves away, or losing touch with a good friend who lives right near you? I think losing touch with a good friend who lives nearby is the worst thing in the world.
What are you most grateful for? Continued life without serious health issues

Would you rather lose all of your old memories, or never be able to make new ones? I wish this was possible though I'm not sure I'd want to lose ALL of my past memories I know there are some I would gladly give up but I am certain I want to keep making new memories

Is is possible to know the truth without challenging it first? Knowing the truth is difficult without some sort of challenge or total faith in the person speaking to you

Has your greatest fear ever come true? Not yet but I haven't reached the age where it becomes less a possibility and becomes a probability

Do you remember that time 5 years ago when you were extremely upset?  Does it really matter now? I don't remember any incident from five years ago so I think whatever I was angry about I am no longer angry about.

What is your happiest childhood memory?  What makes it so special? Fathers Day at the Peterborough Zoo when I was around 10. It was the first time we could really afford to do it. We bought KFC and spent the whole day just looking at the animals and having a picnic. It was special because we got to eat KFC something we never saw at home.

At what time in your recent past have you felt most passionate and alive? If not now, then when? If you haven’t achieved it yet, what do you have to lose? Passionate and alive are not words I use to describe myself. I prefer a laid-back easy-going style. The most alive I feel is when I complete something I din't figure I could do like walk almost 2 km in one shot.

Have you ever been with someone, said nothing, and walked away feeling like you just had the best conversation ever? Yes it happens every time I spend time with an old friend. We talk about all kinds of things and it always feels like we've had a great conversation.

Why do religions that support love cause so many wars? These kinds of religions also have a set of rules like the Christian 10 commandments that they think will make the world the best place to live IF everyone followed them, when the zealots are rebuffed they decide if the words don't convince others than maybe action will. A lot of the time I don't think they mean to cause a war it just happens. Passion does strange things to the mind.

Is it possible to know, without a doubt, what is good and what is evil? Yes and no, you or I can say without a doubt that beating a child is evil, but the person doing it may not see it as evil but as necessary discipline. You define good and evil for yourself and only yourself. If enough people believe something is good while its opposite is evil that becomes the rule the society lives within.

If you just won a million dollars, would you quit your job? Just a million? Hmmm yes I would because I know I could invest some and put some in savings and have money to live on for the rest of my life.

Would you rather have less work to do, or more work you actually enjoy doing? More work that I enjoy doing cause then the time spent flies.

Do you feel like you’ve lived this day a hundred times before? Sometimes, I get deja vu a lot especially when I'm going through my bedtime routine but its not a bad thing just comforting.

When was the last time you marched into the dark with only the soft glow of an idea you strongly believed in? When I went back to school to learn about networks and stuff because I thought I would be happy working in computers.

If you knew that everyone you know was going to die tomorrow, who would you visit today?
The names wouldn't mean anything to you but I would visit my brothers and sisters and their families, my grandchildren and the three people I consider friends. Then if I had time I'd visit my paternal cousins then my maternal ones.

Would you be willing to reduce your life expectancy by 10 years to become extremely attractive or famous? No! I have no desire to be either of these things so sacrificing 19 years of my life for them would be a waste of my time.

What is the difference between being alive and truly living? Being alive means only your physical body is present in the day to day; truly living means your whole self is engaged in your day to day.

When is it time to stop calculating risk and rewards, and just go ahead and do what you know is right? At the point where it is obvious that if I don't do it I would talk myself out of it.

If we learn from our mistakes, why are we always so afraid to make a mistake? Perfectionism, it is a big problem for most people, myself included. Those pain in the ass voices in our heads the keep telling us we are useless and will never accomplish anything. It is difficult to ignore them.

What would you do differently if you knew nobody would judge you? Yes absolutely, one of my biggest fears is of being judged and found inadequate as a friend, mother, sister, aunt etc.

When was the last time you noticed the sound of your own breathing? This afternoon when I was settling down for a nap, I always listen to if as I get ready to go to sleep because I know it has to be slow and easy before I can relax enough to sleep

What do you love?  Have any of your recent actions openly expressed this love? I love my children and my grandchildren and my boyfriend and my sisters oh wait what not who. What I love, getting things , all things, straight and organized in my brain and in my environment. I campaigned for a shelf that is 5 cubes x 5 cubes so that I could keep all my stuff neat and organized in one place.

In 5 years from now, will you remember what you did yesterday?  What about the day before that?  Or the day before that? Without a doubt I will remember nothing about this day, week, month, or year in five years time unless something monumentally good or monumentally bad happens to me in this time period called 2017

Decisions are being made right now.  The question is:  Are you making them for yourself, or are you letting others make them for you? Hmmm, I go with the flow most of the time so others make the decisions for me, it causes less conflict and I prefer to avoid conflict as much as possible. On the otherhand I decide where I'll live, what I'll eat or wear or do so it is about 50/50.

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